Dear Dr X,
My relationship with my boyfriend is the best it has ever been and I ca truly see a future with him. The one problem that we have is that he doesn’t seem to like it when I wear weaves. To be honest I don’t see the big problem here and it is my head after all I can do whatever I want with it but he doesn’t like seeing me in them. He has complained about them enough times that we have got into fights about it and I am very frustrated about it. It’s not like they are permanent I take them out as soon as I feel like they have stayed in long enough. It’s my hair and I can do whatever I want with it.
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Yes it is your head and not his and therefore he really shouldn’t have any opportunity to tell you what you can do with it. The best thing you can do for your peace of mind is continue standing up for yourself. But if you do feel that the fight is just not worth it, then take it out and do something else with your hair. At the end of the day it’s all up to you because it is just a hairstyle after all. But you shouldn’t have to give up something that you like, something that has nothing to do with your boyfriend just to make him happy.
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